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The Meaning of Offering Tea in a Ceremony
Amidst the loud tunes and vulgar chromaticity of Chinese celebrations, be it New Year, weddings or birthday banquets, so there is the tranquility and modesty of tea, the constant reminder of the wisdom of life beyond the ceremonies, as the banality of tea itself takes the center stage, albeit a brief moment.
The Most Important things in Life Comes in Ordinary WaysMuch as the subtlety in fine tea, the most important things in life come to us in ordinary ways but with touches that one needs to be alert enough to be conscious of, to appreciate. Tea appears misleadingly simple as dried leaves, and a clear easy beverage that one can drink throughout the day. It had been the default liquid intake for China for at least a millenium. To construct a ritualistic position of the ordinary item as the carrier of the key message in a ceremony therefore signifies the humility of both the giver and the taker: that the most ordinary is the best we have — it is the message that is the important part, not the carrier. That is why the popular traditional saying — I travelled a thousand miles to bring you the gift of a goose feather; light it is but it bears the weight of our friendship to you (qian li song er mao, li qing qing yi zhong)(2).
Tea as the Ideal GiftIn the olden days, it was therefore a distasteful, if not vulgar, act to give the gift of materialistic items amongst scholars and officials who would liked to be considered as uncorrupted. Tea was thus not only a key ceremonially served drink but also a most popular gift. To appreciate a gift of such a humble nature and yet the most subtle fineness demands on the quality discriminatory ability of again both the giver and the taker. The very acts of examination of tea quality have thus become part of the appreciation ritual. This will be covered in another article on Gongfu Tea Preparation Part 2. Tradition destroyed, Vulgarity Rules
Thereby, the humble act of tea offering acquires a lofty air of the cultured ability of appreciation. The touch of this aspiration for the learned has a deep root in the tradition: the respect for knowledge and the scholarly throughout all walks of life and classes in the social structure. In the deafening gongs and trumpets, blinding reds and golds of Chinese celebrations, the aspiration of a people is sublimated into a small cup of a quiet drink in the hand, a constant reminder of what is really valuable amongst the extravagance of rare dishes, expensive dresses and glitzy body ornaments. This was, however, the past. The clever modern people always have better ideas. Tea is too undramatic so it should be pushed aside. Gold plated dragons and shark fins thus go unrestrained without the humbling reminder hidden in proper tea offering. In Mainland China, tea itself has been so altered according to the desire of the nova riche that the names are now crowned with characters for "emperors" or "kings", the preparation process itself has become an artificial performance conducted by showgirls in imitation glossy silk costumes. This is not Chinese tea ceremony, but only vulgarity on display. It has nothing to do with the grand tradition or its wisdom.
The spirit of tea offering is a living oneIn your next celebration, be it Chinese New Year or Thanksgiving or your own birthday, try to offer tea nicely and respectfully to your seniors as if it were a precious item, but treasure instead the moment of the offering. See it for yourself the magic it may bring on the face of your folks. It really does not matter if you are Chinese or Japanese, Italian or Moroccan, Russian or American… the idea is to deliver a message of gratitude, respect and love. And if you are Chinese and getting married, do get down on your knees to tell them how you are thankful for having been their child on this day when you are to begin a new phase of your life. Now over 30 years after she offered tea to her in-laws and parents as a bride, in Chinese New Year or on her birthday, Beth, my high school friend, would be all delighted to receive a cup of sweetened tea from her grand daughter.
note 2. This is a translation made according to the original saying made in Tang Dynasty (7th~10th century) by an ambassador sent to see Emperor Tai Zhong in a international comity context. The saying is more often used in personal relationship nowadays, sometimes with modifications.
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